When you said I LOVE YOU, did you mean it??
Have someone ever ask u that question? what's ur answer??
It's hard for me to answer that w/out further explaination..why??well..here is why..
First of all, I said I LOVE YOU to someone all the time, you can say casually..here's the categories..LOL..
Friends, including the not so close one...it's just like a "normal gesture" ..when someone in this do something really nice to me..I'll say LOVE YOU!!!
Fams, when someone ask me do you love your fams? yes I do, but there is special bonding between fams where you don't actually need to say "I LOVE YOU" but we all know we love each other..got it??
Soo..yeah.. I SAID I LOVE YOU every so often.. If you are my friend, you must know this by now..
Do I mean it??yes I do mean it but not mean it "mean" it, got it? I say that all the time but never think about it any further. It's totally different w/ the I LOVE YOU to someone more than friend, someone you have FEELING more than friend but not your family either whom I can casually say I LOVE YOU to or don't need the word I LOVE YOU to actually know I love them.
Which come to the last category..
My special someone..that someone more than friends not fams.. WELL, it'll be REALLY REALLY HARD for me to say I LOVE YOU and "mean" it. "Why??isn't it just normal gesture for you?" you asked..well yeah..but it's just different..plus!!!!I haven't found out BY MYSELF the TRUE meaning of this one just yet..
So, for u my friends if I said "LOVE U" to you guys, I do mean it but not in that way, so u don't need to wonder or think it any further especially if you are a guy..
AND for that special someone out there somewhere AND IN THE FUTURE..LOL..If I don't say I LOVE YOU to ya when you said I love you..it might be mean I'm not in that state yet (this goes w/ my "not giving my whole heart" policy)..or I just don't have the courage yet to say it the way I want to mean it..*I'm a shy girl u know!!LOL* If this is the case I do hope u'll stop "hinting" me ..I'll say it myself..EVENTUALLY..LOL
Also, for that special someone, I would hope you don't say this 3 words casually to me because for me it really is a BIG WORD if you mean it. This might be also why it's hard for me to say it + if you say it every so often it's just become another word.
I guess it is true when a Korean American comedian, Henry Cho said that girls have their own languages which only girls can understand...
Like what I said above..I mean it but not "mean it" "mean it".
He said like this..girls said "it's a date" but not a date "date", I like you but not like u "like u".. Guys will think..what the hell??so u like me or not?? but girls will understand, don't you girls???LOL..
Anyway.....so if you get confuse about my ambiguous "love you" words..just come back here and read carefully, which category are you at.LOL....
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